most women can sense when a man is being authentic or not, so these nice charmimg words will have a postive effect only if they sense that it is the truth. when men are giving their nice charming words without meaning what they say women do 'know'. For me, I sense this... then I walk away

if she does not like what she sees in the mirror then she needs to look to see why. it is usually coz of past hurts/remarks/negative experiences, which she has bought into, internalised, and therefore made it real. she needs to remind herself that these remarks/hurts/lies/etc are coming from the other person, who is only using those words as a result of their own insecurities and lack of self-esteem and self-respect. once a person begins to understand this concept then 'stuff' coming from an outside source will never affect them in a negative sense, and life becomes much more meaningful and brighter as their own self-esteem and self-respect returns

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“The truth that makes men free is for the most part the truth which men prefer not to hear.”