I agree. What is the point of telling? If the fling or affair is over and you really want to make things work, the best thing is to shut up about it.

Maybe this woman either had an overblown sense of honesty or she wanted to attract a lot of attention to herself. Maybe she did it because she wanted a dramatic reaction from her husband. Who knows?

I guess it is even possible that she never did have an affair and made the whole thing up to force a resolution to an unhappy relationship. We never really know what goes on in each others heads or beds.

Victory attained by violence is tantamount to a defeat, for it is momentary. Mahatma Gandhi