Well... first of all I just want to say: people... take it easy with Nafisa! I am shure she had a very bad experience what brought her to write these blaming words. But now to you Nafisa: dont be so preciptious in yor opinion concerning the other sex. No doubt that there are bad people.. on both sides - men as well as women - but one should always be optimistic and never ignore the good in the other. What does not mean to ignore the damnable behaviour of (your?) man. You have to remain giving him advise, pray for him to get back to the right path - and believe in Gods answer of your prayers - and last but not least: do not treat him bad but rather be as good to him as you can. If there is someone of your relatives or friends who you can trust in ask them to help you by giving him advice too. May God guide him and let you have a peaceful and harmonic family live as it has to be.
Well... first of all I just want to say: people... take it easy with Nafisa! I am shure she had a very bad experience what brought her to write these blaming words. But now to you Nafisa: dont be so preciptious in yor opinion concerning the other sex. No doubt that there are bad people.. on both sides - men as well as women - but one should always be optimistic and never ignore the good in the other. What does not mean to ignore the damnable behaviour of (your?) man. You have to remain giving him advise, pray for him to get back to the right path - and believe in Gods answer of your prayers - and last but not least: do not treat him bad but rather be as good to him as you can. If there is someone of your relatives or friends who you can trust in ask them to help you by giving him advice too. May God guide him and let you have a peaceful and harmonic family live as it has to be.
Regards