one of my friends had abad experience to why dont you try having a baby and see how it goes and another thing if i was a female i would have my child ina safe place where people know what they are doing.as its my own flesh and blood i expect you would do the same right.thts in your own country or some place where people know what they are doing as it is a very critical situation .if you have any children you will know if very suprising to hear that comment from you a older women .you have a lot to learn.