if these are ur interest as u stated in ur profile (latest gadgets, traveling, sports, music, fashion) even twenty thousand (20,000) a month are not enough, be realistic and stop these activities specially " girls dig me like chocolate bars" I do not know how u can manage even one girl friend in ur salary, please be a man and budget ur expenses according to ur earnings, may be one day u will regret all ur interests and hobbies, do some thing before it is too late. Do u you know lot of people working here earn lot less than what u earn but they do not publicize these interest and they have not left their country for "latest gadgets, traveling, sports, music, fashion"