It's hard to be a wife, especially you are expecting. You supposed to get all the attention from you husband instead of all the problems.

My suggestion is, try to find out what really is going on. Is this an affair or may be your husband just busy. If you have friends that you can depend on, why dont you ask their help to check out on your husband (eg. whether he really messing around with that lady).

As you already have a child, any decision must made carefully. I do understand how hopeless you are as staying home mom.

You have to be strong, think positive, dont show your weakness, try to win your husband's heart again. Otherwise, you might need help from your family back home.

All my prayers for you dear, may god help you.

A mother as well.