no matter what religion you believe in, abusing wife, husband,children or family member is not right what so ever. and inhuman. always a way to communicate. if failed one time, try second time, if failed second time, try third time, if third time failed, keep trying 1000 times. dont ever give up. beside is your family. we as a human being blessed with mind, soul, brain and emotion. we should can always forgive and forget. at the end, if you really cannot take it, give up and move on. find something new. we are smarter then animal therefore we should act more wisely then the animal. SAY NO TO DOMESTIC ABUSE. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.