Mrs..........let me put it this way, you problem with Xena is not just here and it not just with Xena, there are lot of people out there who think you are somebody else, somebody who got banned for rudness, intolerance, insults, bigotry...why is that?
You want to be heard, thats great, as long as what you want to say people want to hear.
You know, for most people what upsets them most is never what someone has to say, its the way they say it.
You are obliviously an intelligent Human Being with deep held beliefs and thoughts, well use your intelligence in your arguements, not your insults, hate, intolerance. And in the end if people dont accept your view, well at least they listened and maybe they will think about later. People will stop listening to you, will ignore you and then you dont have a chance to at least communicate........if communication is what you really seek.