joe- you are 100% wrong, i do not care more about the ring than my fiancee. we have been together for over 5yrs and i love him more than anything, the reason i am trying to find something now is because he is insisting. i am happy to wait until i get to doha and pick it out myself.at the end of the day i am entitled to get a ring that i want to the specification i want as i will wear this ring the rest of my life.
thank you everyone else who gave helpful answers! have nice day.