Azilana...........the problem is with Independant women is that some of them are so concentrated in keeping their independance that they forget in a relationship one always gives up a little of ones independance, it is the nature of the relationship, you can no longer think just of yourself.
For alot of independant women this is a non-stater, they cannot give any part up, therefore there relationships end and then they complain that men are unreasonable and just want to stiffle them and take away their independance...........in some cases this maybe true.
Independant, free thinking women are a blessing to our society and world and thank god they are there as they are interesting, fun loving, intelligent people.
Just wish sometimes they would realise that just because a man loves them and wants to be with them is not a sign that he wishes to take anything away from them........in the contrary....men want to share things with them but any independance that maybe sacrifised must be given by them not taken us..........and contrary to some beleives giving up a little of your independance is not a weakness........its a gift