I do have lots of friend from my country but of course I have to minggled with my husband side as well.
I do fine most of the pakistani gentlement polite eventhough as the culture we dont meet face to face.
In Pakistani culture, if we visited one family, the gents will sit in the separate room from the ladies.
This is how my problem start :D What I was talking about was the LADIES. No matter how polite I am and try to be active in the conversation(it's all bout family & kids talks which I know very much) I always being ignored.
One example was about the school meeting. The teacher was A PAKISTANI LADY how could she prefer to talk to my husband who know little about my kids home work instead of me who managing my kids school? I just dont want to be "kinky mother" but whenever I started the conversation, she will then started to talk to my husband?? not only one but all the ladies pakistani teachers I met ?! Hellooo, I am also well educated and working mom.
Dear All,
Thanks you all for such a great support.
I do have lots of friend from my country but of course I have to minggled with my husband side as well.
I do fine most of the pakistani gentlement polite eventhough as the culture we dont meet face to face.
In Pakistani culture, if we visited one family, the gents will sit in the separate room from the ladies.
This is how my problem start :D What I was talking about was the LADIES. No matter how polite I am and try to be active in the conversation(it's all bout family & kids talks which I know very much) I always being ignored.
One example was about the school meeting. The teacher was A PAKISTANI LADY how could she prefer to talk to my husband who know little about my kids home work instead of me who managing my kids school? I just dont want to be "kinky mother" but whenever I started the conversation, she will then started to talk to my husband?? not only one but all the ladies pakistani teachers I met ?! Hellooo, I am also well educated and working mom.