I understand your concerns, but I am not stupid either, I am trying to connect timtam with her partner, based on the latter's will not her's or mine.

I have a very simple and diplomatic way of doing so. No offense meant timtam, but I'm just striking a balance, to make sure I'm neutral.

I PM-ed you, got it?

May we all find/unite/re-untie with our loved ones.
Happy New Year
Salaam