I am glad you enjoyed my post! I know how hard it could be to make a decision like the one you have before you, but I know that if you accept it you will look back in a few years and be happy that you did because its always a great experience to be able to travel to a different country and live there for awhile and learn about the culture.. you will meet so many new people from all over the world and you will have so much to talk about with your friends back home and to your children.

Regarding the marriage I feel its better to get married if you are 100% sure that your ready than just go for it, life is to short. It is much safer being married and living together in Qatar, but I do know many living here and unmarried that act married, but its much safer to be truly married if the FBI, Police coming knocking on your door the first thing they will ask for is your marriage certificate... you also can't go to the hotels and be in one room with a boyfriend you must be married and some ask for the marriage certificates some don't it all depends on your luck. If your not married living together you must keep in your mind this country's law is based on the religion of Islam... so there is serious consequences.. jail time, maybe even slashing's. Not trying to scare you just like to make it clear for you.

I really hope you decide to get married and come over here. I believe if your married and move here with your future husband you will only get closer in a country that's not yours, because you will only have each other to experience the life away from home. Now again its up to you. If you move here consider you already have a friend and boy do I have stories I can tell you. ;)

Your lucky cause when I moved here I didn't know about this site or even know if it was running... but it helps a lot.

Things I do ... I love going to movies, shopping, coffee shops, walk on the corniche is very peaceful, I use to go to the clubs and now I am not that much of a club girl... but I do like to go out and eat dinner with friends and have a girls night out... the sad thing is most of my friends moved away,,,, so its been hard and lonely trying to find new friends here... my job doesn't help with that either.. I work alone.
O yes I do go to my aerobics class 3 to 5 days a week depends on my work schedule... I want to start to take Arabic lessons to learn how to write and read.. I do speak fluently... there is many things to keep you busy here..

You asked about having blonde hair... there is many girls here with blonde hair, but it doesn't matter how many there are the Arabic people will always stare at you...I have dark brown hair and they still stare at me.. I don't know how they can tell that I am not from this country even though I have Arabic background... Funny its like they can smell it.. LOL
But they love to stare at ladies especially.. and the way you dress can make them stare more... but you can wear what ever you want.. but I wouldn't go out in a mini skirt in this country.. just for respect to the people and I am not that type of girl that likes to wear mini skirts anyway's... but I do like to look good..

Some stores they have got here that I like : Mango, Vero Moda, Oasis, Promod, Evita Peroni, Accessorize, almost forgot Zara.. I love Zara!
and many more that I like... no worries there...

That's all for now.. Take care and try not to think to much.. I go by signs ,,, and the sign for you is so clear.. if your fiancee got offered a good job than go for it... and get married and come over.

I am waiting for you.. to take you shopping :)

Cheers
Fairy

Sleep good tonight! Fairy dust blowed on you to come my way ;) LOL