It's easy to ask you to consider talking to your father about it. I don't necessarily think this will solve the problem, it might aggravate it. I know what a conservative secretive society is.
You’re the only one here who knows your father and mother well. Your mom might already know about but silent. Your father will turn against you and the confrontation might (I say might) result in divorce. Also, it might not be his first, but your first to know about.
That’s one thing you need to keep in mind. Don’t think only about yourself and the contempt you feel towards him now. Think about her, how will she support herself, is there someone she can turn to.
You will surely feel betrayed and an uncomfortable, would you consider trying to feel out if your mother is already aware of it or not?? Are you capable of doing that?
It's easy to ask you to consider talking to your father about it. I don't necessarily think this will solve the problem, it might aggravate it. I know what a conservative secretive society is.
You’re the only one here who knows your father and mother well. Your mom might already know about but silent. Your father will turn against you and the confrontation might (I say might) result in divorce. Also, it might not be his first, but your first to know about.
That’s one thing you need to keep in mind. Don’t think only about yourself and the contempt you feel towards him now. Think about her, how will she support herself, is there someone she can turn to.
You will surely feel betrayed and an uncomfortable, would you consider trying to feel out if your mother is already aware of it or not?? Are you capable of doing that?