friendship can be a spur of a moment. you meet this stranger and he can be your friend for the rest of your life. however it can be also a long process, getting to know someone for a longer period of time until you would consider him as your true friend. this is one of the mysteries of friendship.

well i really hope you can find a real friend here. coz it surely means a lot when you have a confidante.

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz