Ultimately, most younger men tend to be more cowardice to doing the right thing if it means hurting another girl's feeling. And no, they don't mind hurting their partner's feelings because the man does it so often, more often that not unintentionally, that he begins to think its his right or that she'll forgive him forever and he can get away with it.
For these men, it would seem that hurting a female friend's feelings is worse than hurting you partner's feelings. He just didn't want to face up to his responsibility of doing the right thing i.e. removing her from his friends list, as that would make his friend realise that there was something wrong and it might come to light that he opened his big mouth.
Some of us men learn later the simple fact that it is your partner and only you partner that should take priorty. Most women know this from the start. (don't ask we why men and women are so different)
Well, until this man has pushed his woman too far that she leaves him, until then he 'll never learn to put his partner first. He can only learn the hard way! Sorry, it the way most of us men are!!!
And the moral of the story. As men get older they learn that its not about showing off your conquests to try to feel more than a man, but to hide them and actually be more like a man.
The other side to the coin is that all this happened before this couple got together. Can't the woman trust her man? He was honest enough to tell her what happened and honest that they were just friends. She should lighten up and learn to trust him, after all, what is a relationship without trust?
Whichever side you want to take, in the end, the woman is always right. Men just can't win. Give in now guys, it'll save you decades of anguish!
Ultimately, most younger men tend to be more cowardice to doing the right thing if it means hurting another girl's feeling. And no, they don't mind hurting their partner's feelings because the man does it so often, more often that not unintentionally, that he begins to think its his right or that she'll forgive him forever and he can get away with it.
For these men, it would seem that hurting a female friend's feelings is worse than hurting you partner's feelings. He just didn't want to face up to his responsibility of doing the right thing i.e. removing her from his friends list, as that would make his friend realise that there was something wrong and it might come to light that he opened his big mouth.
Some of us men learn later the simple fact that it is your partner and only you partner that should take priorty. Most women know this from the start. (don't ask we why men and women are so different)
Well, until this man has pushed his woman too far that she leaves him, until then he 'll never learn to put his partner first. He can only learn the hard way! Sorry, it the way most of us men are!!!
And the moral of the story. As men get older they learn that its not about showing off your conquests to try to feel more than a man, but to hide them and actually be more like a man.
The other side to the coin is that all this happened before this couple got together. Can't the woman trust her man? He was honest enough to tell her what happened and honest that they were just friends. She should lighten up and learn to trust him, after all, what is a relationship without trust?
Whichever side you want to take, in the end, the woman is always right. Men just can't win. Give in now guys, it'll save you decades of anguish!
(Long Sigh)