Men have different phases like women ... you just have to trust them ... when men are down or tensed or very much stressed, the tend to give a lot of time for themselves ... they dont like anyone disturbing their thought process or solitude ... but women, want more care and more attention during the same phase ...

if he tell you to look for a better situation, it often means that he is not in a mood to shower love on you the way he usually does, he cant give you much attention at that time as he is busy with other imp work ... that phase may pass and all you have to do is wait untill he bounces back with flowers as the same old lovely guy ...

Nobody dies a virgin ... Life Screws you anyway !!!