may be that's what i will do.. and then i will see if it works... Maybe that's hat he means: go out with your friends, and let me go with mine ones? He keeps saying he doesn't have anybody, he just wants to be left alone...well.. that's what i will do.. and it has been mentioned, I will take care of myself, Gym, Spa, etc..don't think i look bad though.. i am fit and quite attractive :).

thanks guys! I will re-read all this and develop my strategy based on whatt all you have said!!

and again, what a lovely site our QL is!!!