...imho this is not a matter of maturing, but of understanding different cultures...as far as I can see. I mean, Alexa is right when she says that all men are like this, but still the Mediterraneans or Arabs are different. And unfortunately I don't have too many people in this country to get advise from, so I am very happy and thankful that there are people around here who are actually trying to help me finding a solution or explanation.