Been there 4 years ago. Thats y i didnt date anyone after that. You see the thing is once u r in ti, there is no way out, then u will have to take things in ur hands and solve it. It's not easy to be married u know. Alot of compromises have to be done. Its all about balancing ur life and relationship with the other person. U must make her feel secure and that she is the one for u or else it would end up like any other hollywood movie or soap opera. 

It's always the small things that make big differences.