Thanks Dweller,

 

Thats good to hear a real view.  I have gone back and asked for another 5000 QR pm plus school fees fully paid but it sounds as even that is not enough.  As novita rightly points out I need to think about the future as I wanted to move for a decent length of time.

 

I am being told that the bonuses are excellent, but this is not guaranteed and really a bonus should be a bonus and not for paying bills.

 

The only other option is to go on my own, but then again why should I leave my familly behind to make a bit of money? 

 

On the furniture front I have been offered 40,000QR which I would have to pay back on a sliding scale if I left within 4 years, If I stayed I wouldnt pay anything back.

 

I think unless a signifcant increase even more than what I asked for is not given I will stay here in the UK!  Thanks again.