Well I'm speaking logically; however, should it happen to me, I honestly don't know how I would react or whether I would forgive the person or not.

Nadt, u just said "jumping into bed with someone"; however, u failed to mention the circumstance in which that happened. Let's say for example, a couple have been married for a long time, each with a different career and soon enough they become distant and pre-occupied with children, work, etc and grew more apart instead of communicating and solving the issue. The husband finds a cute, warm co-worker who's always listening to him, showing him affection, making him laugh, etc instead of going back home and worrying about the bills and nagging, etc and so he makes the mistake and sleeps with her. What would u say to a situation like that ? Was it completely his fault ? Or did the circumstance drive him to her arms ? Yes he did a bad thing but then again we could've all easily made the same mistake should we have been put in the same situation.

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield