baj, that's a very disturbing kind of love, and I doubt it's even love to begin with. Yuck!

Speed, sadly I've heard alot of stories as well about children abandoning their elder parents. It's heart-breaking. But then again I think to myself...what goes around comes around, and the way u treat ur parents is most likely the way ur children will treat u.  

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield