If someone falls in love with you, its because of who you are at that time..NOT what they prefer you to be. You can't make someone change when you marry them...that's not right, nor is it healthy for either party concerned. When people change to suit another person, that's not good because you are changing who you are and as everyone knows...we can't be something we are not...Always be true to yourself.
When two people love each other deeply..then they learn to "grow" together...not change completely, but to complement each other.
Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)
If someone falls in love with you, its because of who you are at that time..NOT what they prefer you to be. You can't make someone change when you marry them...that's not right, nor is it healthy for either party concerned. When people change to suit another person, that's not good because you are changing who you are and as everyone knows...we can't be something we are not...Always be true to yourself.
When two people love each other deeply..then they learn to "grow" together...not change completely, but to complement each other.
Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)