when you have problems...even if you realize that you cant live with that person anymore...its hard to move away and end it if the other person doesnt want to. he thinks that it can still be fixed, need just counseling, just time off, or whatever he thinks of. thinks that everything is fine...is blind or naive that everything will still work out. and it has and will go on for years now.

even if you say its over...we're done...we cant live with each other anymore...its difficult to make him understand. he has to see the big picture but he just cant. he would tell our friends that we're still fine when we're not. will pretend that everything is going smooth. he'd take me with him and show others that we are still doing good. even if some of our friends know we are not. which is somehow lame. i learned from a friend that he always talks about us being ok. i dont know what for anyway.