get a long vacation more than usual...
before making a move to thnk things out.
do wat u thnk u've missed, visit ur bro if u cud and c ur frnds and do anythng u wish along wid them other than work...

then compare.

evrything you mentioned has its worth, it's only up to you to decide best.

"Remember, when the world pushes you to your knees, you're in the perfect position to pray" (anonymous)