if you only look backwards and want to be young again, then you will always live in regrets because we can't do that. Ksa speaks the truth..and take his advice because as a man, they are the ones doing the looking!!!! If you ever think about it...when we women dress up, its NOT for the men, its for the other WOMEN...If a man goes for a younger woman and forgets about his wife/girlfriend, etc...then he's not worth the time God used to put him on this earth. That mans is only interested in the outer surface and that too will fade with his younger woman. Those men who look on the inside and see what beauty is there are true treasures. A REAL man will grow old with you and love and cherish the wrinkles that your life together has put on your face. The parts of your body what might droop a bit, are because of his babies you bore him. If you are dating someone, if they appreciate all those characteristics..go for it...because again, he is a very special intelligent man who thinks with his heart, not his "small brain"...which with time fades also...

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.
--Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)