i used to hate cats, never hurt 0ne thought, then my sis got a cat(male), our agreement is that she will feed it and handle everything, not to allow it to cross to my room even, anyway in the first week with us it got so sick even the vet told me it will mostly die, and my sis was at final exam, so i had to take care of the cat, now i love that cat very much, realy i can't tell why.