desaim..

It seems no body would like to admit the attraction towards married men. No committments just sex that she may not be having at home. Perhaps married men are more willing to wine and dine her. Buy her extra presents that her husband uses for the bills. Or he has a big one that he knows how to use and she has sacrificed her sex drive with her hubby who she knows is a great man. And the worst scenerio being that she has no choice but to stay with him due to cultural expectations but does not really love him.

I mean I don't want to say either people are bad. It could just be one of those things that help when times get rough. A relaxant medication that one needs to dose themselves up from time to time. Or to feel that quick nostalgia of love and passion that has become muted in time.

Of course, personally I believe control is in order. After all if you love and respect a person then we should be patient and ride out the rough times. And if one is so unhappy perhaps they should think of divorce and marry another as a lesser of two evils.

Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi