for making it clear that it is important in BOTH sexes..

Yes in many cultures sexuality is more open than others..and virginity is strictly something that one does when they respect themselves enough to refrain from being sexually active...IF THEY CHOOSE TO....not because someone forces them to. The standards however must be for both sides, not just for one.

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.