Irrysa:Thanx for the clarification....ofcourse its bigamy, silly me!
I sympathise with ur frnd. I guess having a kid is more of a compulsion for a woman( or evn a man) to stay in an unhappy relationship.
Culture and bringing shame to family is not jus ther in india...there are lots of cultures that look down upon divorce(which btw, doesnt make sense to me). Also I know women hu hav been bold enough to throw the "culture/shame to family" argument away n take charge of their lives. ultimately its a personal thing.
Even in western societies there are women hu take crap n stay in the relationship(may b the numbers r less, i donno). Wht these women need to understand is "If u keep doing wht u r doing, u'll keep gettin wht u r getting!!"(oops was that a bit too harsh?)
If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.
Irrysa:Thanx for the clarification....ofcourse its bigamy, silly me!
I sympathise with ur frnd. I guess having a kid is more of a compulsion for a woman( or evn a man) to stay in an unhappy relationship.
Culture and bringing shame to family is not jus ther in india...there are lots of cultures that look down upon divorce(which btw, doesnt make sense to me). Also I know women hu hav been bold enough to throw the "culture/shame to family" argument away n take charge of their lives. ultimately its a personal thing.
Even in western societies there are women hu take crap n stay in the relationship(may b the numbers r less, i donno). Wht these women need to understand is "If u keep doing wht u r doing, u'll keep gettin wht u r getting!!"(oops was that a bit too harsh?)
If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.