yes wine is not always khamr by the way khamr means alcohols it`s the same meaning and by the way cigars with hush or weed can be considered as alcohols and prohibeted and any way if u want to drink just go and drink why u are trying to proof that u r a good person cause u and ur family go drinking and dancing in a club and we moslems are totally wrong cause we don`t want to do like u and ur family, is that gonna make u confortable by anyway ,ok next time while u drink ur jovaz bottle and dance with ur beutiful wife say it loud "hey people i m doing the right thing now and i m better than all muslims" i think u gonna be fine after that :)
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