Thank you, Well I had no problem becoming a muslim. I believe in the islamic ways. It does not matter to me what the western civilization has to offer on this subject. I choose to convert to muslim simply because i believe. I also did this before marriage. I must confess though there are somethings that i am still learning about the islamic faith. But we all have to start somewhere.

in response to asking myself the above questions: Yes I have asked myself these questions but I don't think I know if I believe in the answers. And perhaps this may be due to my eagerness to learn and of course the distance. However, in speaking with my husband over an hour regarding these question I think the hardest one to answer would be am I changing him... I hope that he does not change. I loved him the way I first met him and I mean I loved everything about him. Now because he is coming to canada my greatest fear is that he will change, I am sure he is strong in his faith, But i worry that the temptations of western society will change him. Although he assures me that Allah would not have brought us together if he intended him to change. So with that being said! we shall see.

Fatima