We sometimes imagined cactus flowers as roses , and treat them like a rose . When we reach the flower of the cactus , try to smell it , we discover that the rose has no smell , and the shape is not like a rose . Then we suddenly realize the bitter truth that we have been loving a cactus !!

So , Ask yourself again and again , and don't touch any thorn before you are completely sure : Is she a real rose or a cactus flower ?