Why! Why! Why!

Why is it that people are calling her a slut, what about the man? Slut= slovenly or promiscuous. What about him. If we are to assume that she does this with many men, why wouldn't we assume that he does this with many woman. Not to condone her behavior but most of the comments seem to be against her. I get it that speaking in a derogatory manner with the police man, for sure was wrong! but common guys what about him. he is just as big of a slut and maybe even bigger. Maybe he was taking advantage of this drunken girl without any regard for her well being or the law at that.

I just don't understand the way we think, we don't condone the disregard for the law by these two but we, especially the women on the forum seem to be condoning the slandering the woman only. As I read the story it seem to me that there were two people involved in this! 1 male and 1female.