No, Not in general, from what I see here in canada. I actually don't see that many older woman with younger men. Not to insult anyone, but blacks and asians tend to not age as fast as other races, not sure why! but I have travelled a lot and it is clear that they don't. I myself look young for my age and when I travel to hotter countries my skin becomes smoother and more vibrant. So, When I first met my husband it was attraction all the way around. And age did not come up until a week and a half after we started hanging out. So by that time we developed more feelings for each other. I too was actually surprised at how old he was but in any case the age did not bother me until after he asked me to marry him. I tried to reason why I should not marry him and then I reasoned why I should marry him. For me the answer was clear. I was never more in love. I am not questioning my marriage to my husband to my husband cause at this point no matter the age difference we are in it for life.

I must admit though, that I do see some women and men trying to look or even act younger than their age. Especially men in my community, not sure why, but to me it is always men between 40-60 trying to be hip around the younger girls. Its rather raunchy seeing a wrinkled old man hitting on the younger babes and trust me they say the stupidest things. I guess I could say the same for women but I really don't see it that much with woman. However, I have been to many african countries and have seen many older white women strolling along beaches and tourist attraction with younger black/arabic men between the ages of 18 and 30. These women are usually about 45-60 and are fat and wrinkled. It does appear that they dress in a younger fashion and their behavior is a bit loud.