She did a great job. I had my place but it had to be learned. The important thing is that it is a team effort.

Women get prepared from early on in life for motherhood, wheras for men, not so much for fatherhood (typically). Men are usually 'thrown to the wolves', Spartan-like. If they had good mothers, they learn to follow their spouses lead in this regard. Men, well, we're men. That's why a woman has to choose wisely. Let's face it, when it comes to settling down, it's typically the woman's choice.