with my hubby...going on 28 years now...don't regret the engagement but do regret wasting all the money on the wedding...Had I to do it over again, would have eloped,taken the money and have taken a HUGE trip with him instead, then have a big party to celebrate with my friends when we returned.

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.