I can't believe this is the same Pakistan where I come from.. Seems like another planet or something.. I have always told my parents that I would chose the man I marry and I would not go for an arranged marriage. My family has always respected my wishes and never forced me into anything. Not just me, all the girls in my family have been to school and college and all are working. Most of them have found partners of their own choice and are happy.. I find it so difficult to relate to that Pakistan where girls are still murdered in the name of honor killing.. What a shame