For the most part and from my experience, all people want to do to help is tell you to leave him, what they don't realise is is not that easy in my situation he threatened that if i left him he would take the one thing I valued most and that was my life and given what he had already done to me you have no choice to believe that they will...

"Your born, You Live, You Die, given this premise, one can conclude since we have no control over when we are born and when we die, the only thing that matters to us should be how we live, simple really?" Mis-Cat to her philosophy Lecturer.