The question is and it's one that I propose to all people who know someone in this situation,
"fine you help them get medical treatment if they need it, you are there for them if they need someone to talk too, but at the end of the day you do nothing to stop them from returning to the person. HAve you called the police have you offered to shelter them from this person, get them the help that they really need?"
You see getting away is the hardest part and in most cases unless (as in my case) somebody calls the proper authorities on their behalf, they won't do it. You have to understand there is not only physical abuse but there is psychological abuse also, they tell you that no one else cares for you the way they do and if nobody really steps up and shows you that they do by really helping you then again you believe them....
"Your born, You Live, You Die, given this premise, one can conclude since we have no control over when we are born and when we die, the only thing that matters to us should be how we live, simple really?" Mis-Cat to her philosophy Lecturer.
The question is and it's one that I propose to all people who know someone in this situation,
"fine you help them get medical treatment if they need it, you are there for them if they need someone to talk too, but at the end of the day you do nothing to stop them from returning to the person. HAve you called the police have you offered to shelter them from this person, get them the help that they really need?"
You see getting away is the hardest part and in most cases unless (as in my case) somebody calls the proper authorities on their behalf, they won't do it. You have to understand there is not only physical abuse but there is psychological abuse also, they tell you that no one else cares for you the way they do and if nobody really steps up and shows you that they do by really helping you then again you believe them....
"Your born, You Live, You Die, given this premise, one can conclude since we have no control over when we are born and when we die, the only thing that matters to us should be how we live, simple really?" Mis-Cat to her philosophy Lecturer.