PH - Listen to yourself you gave up your lifestyle, some of your freedom, not mixing with others, for the sake of companionship, companionship? It's not a word that I would use if you truly love someone it's a word that you use to describe your friends, it's a friendship word, a word you use when there is nothing other than company kept between to people for the sake of being lonely. The way you describe what you have makes it sound like you got scared, scared that you would be lonely for the rest of your life, so you are willing to give yourself up for the sake of thinking that at least you won't be lonely for the rest of your life,So you do care what others think of you. When you stop, when all the glitz is worn off, what happens then? in years from now what happens? what happens if you find out he is having an affair and the person he is having an affair with was the same as the person you used to be? but you gave that all up for him, because you thought that's what he wanted?
Never give up who you are for anyone, you give up who you are then you will truly end up knowing what it's like to be alone.......
and Brutus - I'm not talking about the little things in life as stated before I am talking about changing who you are because that's what they want, any body that professes to love you to be your true friend would never ask you to do this, it is after all the reason they are attracted to you in the first place.
"Your born, You Live, You Die, given this premise, one can conclude since we have no control over when we are born and when we die, the only thing that matters to us should be how we live, simple really?" Mis-Cat to her philosophy Lecturer.
PH - Listen to yourself you gave up your lifestyle, some of your freedom, not mixing with others, for the sake of companionship, companionship? It's not a word that I would use if you truly love someone it's a word that you use to describe your friends, it's a friendship word, a word you use when there is nothing other than company kept between to people for the sake of being lonely. The way you describe what you have makes it sound like you got scared, scared that you would be lonely for the rest of your life, so you are willing to give yourself up for the sake of thinking that at least you won't be lonely for the rest of your life,So you do care what others think of you. When you stop, when all the glitz is worn off, what happens then? in years from now what happens? what happens if you find out he is having an affair and the person he is having an affair with was the same as the person you used to be? but you gave that all up for him, because you thought that's what he wanted?
Never give up who you are for anyone, you give up who you are then you will truly end up knowing what it's like to be alone.......
and Brutus - I'm not talking about the little things in life as stated before I am talking about changing who you are because that's what they want, any body that professes to love you to be your true friend would never ask you to do this, it is after all the reason they are attracted to you in the first place.
"Your born, You Live, You Die, given this premise, one can conclude since we have no control over when we are born and when we die, the only thing that matters to us should be how we live, simple really?" Mis-Cat to her philosophy Lecturer.