Islandrock: I reply to you with another question, do angels have a gender?
Soul has no shape, it's ethereal, doesn't keep the human form, it may appear to you looking like the person it was incarnated in when you met but it has no shape or dimension ;)
Advise you to read:

http://www.spiritwritings.com/kardecspiritstoc.html

Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي

I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ