could be one or more of the requests weren't seen by those that do the accepting or maybe you hadn't hit the requirements yet.

Either way, irf...in the meantime..if you want to, do what I did about a year ago...put up an open invitation for a coffee on here..see what response you get...the first one i ever did brought in about 25 people. Yes, it can be a bit of a dice roll with some of the fruities on here...so just be cautious.

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.