nomad what i meant was that i grew up in a not so conservative country but still when i saw what i saw and (i do not like really to say forgive me)and i was in a section full of kids coz it is a family section,i felt so much ashamed and i thanked god that my son was not with me.all nationalities have women like this for sure but it is just here more common with filipina and they are employed no filipina here is dying out of hunger even the helper she get a good salary plus a lot of extra things if her boss is good i mean she has no big reason to do what they are doing(which does not mean that i give an excuse for wrecking any woman family because a filipina is in need of money)again believe me my intension here is just to shake you filipina a little bit and help you respect your country better coz your country is helping you a lot and your embassy is very good and protecting you from any problems and helped you to improve your working conditions,so in return i want you to try to improve this image and may god help you and bless you