now that he is married he should think not only himself but your future as a married couple. he should be thankful both of you are here abroad where there are a lot job opportunities and I mean a lot if you just have the balls and perservance to look for one. if he goes back to your home country then what? marriage is two-way street as i read your post it seems that all considerations are for your husband not for you both. he should be patient enough to look fo a job here.