but I offer my house to the lady who cleans my house, when I am gone on vacation...so far she's chosen not to come and take advantage of the pool in my back yard.

I would have to say that if a maid is to use the compound pool, then her employer needs to be with her or at least sign her/him in, so that there's an accountability for the number of people in the pool area.

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.