and not tell anyone. She will do it when she is emotionally able to handle it.

Just be there for her when she needs to talk...buy her a phone card or offer to help with her phone bills because you know she will need to talk things out with you. Or get skype...that would be best of all. Tell her to try and reduce her stress level because that in itself can make you ill. It lowers your immune system and that's what she really needs to have at an all time high right now.

You've got any and all prayers and well wishes from my side...God bless you and her, lovinni..

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.