Platao, You never miss a chance to criticise islam... Islam has so many rules and regulations and who is able to follow those can be Muslim. If islam teaches something, we muslims has to follow that else live your way as a non muslim. Islam strictly controls those who accepted islam as his way of life. There is no compeltion on non muslims to follow islamic teachings. If your girlfriend is willing to marry you, do that.. no problem. Since she decided to marry a non muslim man, she herself thrown out from islam. So why are you waiting. As someone said above, the one who grown up in islamic way are aware that, what they can do and what can't. Don't bash islam every moment as you could not able to get the girl you wanted.... If she is willing to marry you, take her to your country and do it... Don't bash islam, it can not be tolerated.