Thejam - Also i feel it is better for the women ( the wife) that even if the husband is married to another or others he is faithful to them alone.

EM - what about the other wives? I wouldn't want to share my man with any other woman, whether official or otherwise. Seriously, all hell will break loose. As for my man having affairs, he'd better have a good backup plan before he gets 6 ft under. (Oops! I'm not supposed to commit murder... ok. I'll find an alternative, since I'm resourceful).

As for "the poor wife did not know anything about it" (the affairs), God help my man if he thought he was smart enough to get away with it. Well, never know... many have tried and failed but he could be THE ONE. Lol! I've had practice with really good liars (at work and personally) so I've been well trained, you see...

As for the "advantages for the wives with polygamy" I vote for polyandry! That's the way to go. Again, I say, how nice to have options. :)

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